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Below is our profile which is a brief outline as to why we may be the right man to answer your dilemmas. Just click on the link below which will take you to our blogs so you can find out more.

All you have to do is decide who you want to contact. It does not matter where in the world you live – you can ask a man in the UK USA ( India or Africa coming soon), the flags are just there to let you know where each team member lives as sometimes there are cultural differences that you think are better addressed my someone from your native land.

Matt

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Matt has a legal background and has been involved in problem-solving for over 20 years. He spent his early years in Africa before moving to the UK. He actively participated in sport in his younger days, combining cricket and martial arts. Matt's exposure to different cultures and personalities may just make him the right person to assess and advise on your problem.

Matt Says "I'm a great listener who is good to talk to and likes to examine all options before embarking on a course of action"

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Vaughan

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Vaughan is a native New Yorker, spending most of his life there. The large majority of his friends are female and he has spent his time over the years giving uplifting advice and helping their self esteem when it comes to their men issues and prides himself on being a good listener.

Vaughan says "to understand someone, first you must be able to listen to them. not hear them, but listen and look through their eye's, this is the only way to understand how someone is feeling".

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Courtney

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Courtney graduated with Honors in Law and French a couple of years ago, though currently spends much of his time modelling in London. At 25 years old he has had two long term relationships as well as some shorter ones whilst living abroad.

Courtney says "I have a very down to earth nature and understand both women and men very well and it's because of this that many of my female friends tend to ask my advice on emotional matters".

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Dan

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Married to a lovely Irish lass and has a 3 year old son. He is a trained life coach and sanny is matudied at Newcastle University and now runs his own business.

Danny says "I will give concise advice and utilise some life coaching tips to assist you through any difficult times you may be experiencing".

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Shane

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Actor, carpenter, barman, firefighter and has worked at a variety of jobs across 3 continents. Shane has spent a total of 4 years traveling the world gaining life experience and talking to people from a number of cultures.

Shane says "with my vast amount of experience meeting and talking to people I feel I can give sound advice from the knowledge I have learnt on my travels".

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David

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David, 43 is a graphic artist, research scientist and forklift diver and currently works as a musician. As with his array of jobs David has been a love 'em and leave 'em kind of fella in the past and has dated women all over the world. He has been in several long term relationships and has now settled down with his girlfriend who he has been with for 8 years

David says "Knowing many women and how they work I feel puts me in a good position to give advice on how to help them with their relationships with men".

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Joesph

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Joseph is 29 year old law graduate and has been in the Spanish Royal Navy. Joseph currently teaches children with special needs drama and what he describes an immensely rewarding experience. He is fluent in Spanish and is a self confessed player and is friendly and outgoing.

Joseph says "I have not been a saint in the past but it means that I do understand how the mind of a player works. I can give you valuable insight if this is the kind of man you are dealing with".

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Tim

 

(to protect Tim’s wish to remain private –posed by model)

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Tim is a well-traveled, artistic, mature man who has a passion for photography, gardening and music.

Tim says "Many of my closest friends are women and they often compliment me on being a good listener and having the gift of honesty and clarity as well as a talent for understanding human nature".

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Callum

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Callum was born in Dublin and is three-quarters Irish but is really a London boy. He is 36 and lives and works in North London with his partner and 8-year old daughter. He also has two older step-children age 20 and 23. Callum is a classically-trained musician and has spent most of his professional life working in the UK music industry

Callum says "I believe I am a naturally good communicator with a great deal to offer in terms of balanced and objective advice"

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Ollie

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Ollie is a 19 year old actor from Surrey. He has a good group of mates at various universities who are all dating. They meet up regularly at the pub, and discuss their love lives. Ollie is a good listener and is in touch with what the average young student is thinking. Ollie also has a lot of female friends who always ask for his advice.

Ollie says "I'm a straight talking type of guy and will give you straightforward, no-nonsense advice from the point of view of a young lad in London".

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Mystery Writer

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Michael is a published novelist and freelance writer. Because of the controversial nature of his literary works, he prefers to use a pen name. The human male is a peculiar animal, and one that should be relatively easy to understand. Why then are there millions of books devoted to philosophy, psychology, sexology and the pursuit of happiness? Is it because our civilization is gradually dumbing down and we need constant education?
Or is it because we are too smart for our own good and actually over-analyze life, hoping for the best, but losing focus of the real issues?
Brazenly exploring the luscious world of sin, loveless sex and the most tragic of self-destructive relationships, taught me that complication in itself does not bring happiness. Psychology studies taught me much about the human psyche, but also seemed to bring a great sense of detachment to my life. Even worse, I have found that modern psychology seems to teach standardization in practice, when in fact, individualized attention is the most important part of therapy.

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Luis

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I was born and raised in Brooklyn, NY, 36 years ago. I’m a writer, who loves reading and travelling and observing. I’m single, never been married, and have no kids—a rarity for someone from my neck of the woods, but I couldn’t see bringing kids into the world unless I was sure I was ready. I know people because I know myself. I’ve been told I’m an amazing listener. Brutally honest but not hurtful. (I don’t want to make anyone feel stupid, I just want them to realize when they’re not doing what’s best for them) 99.9% of my friends are female and they all call me for every type of advice, or to let them know everything is all right, or just to talk them to sleep. And they know that I’m available to them always.

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Koji

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Male, 30-years-old, recently married, spiritual but not religious, fourth generation Japanese American, Los Angeles born and raised, no children currently but wants children. I am as close to being a woman a straight/non-metrosexual man could be. I am most comfortable around women but my best friends are men. So I see myself in the middle of the gender war. I had a very tumultuous and always interesting love life before I found happiness with my wife. My ultimate goal: a writer/filmmaker/house husband who takes care of the kids and coaches Little League.

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Gary

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Gary's a writer in his mid-50s who travelled the world with a backpack in his youth, and today has settled down to work on a few books and screenplays – and a book of poetry. He likes playing poker, sailing, hiking, fishing, tennis and baseball. Gary says: "I learned a lot from my divorce many years ago, and moved on to have some great relationships with women who didn't want marriage. “One of my challenges is to find my soul mate, but there’s no rush. A wise man once said that the harder you look for something, the more elusive it tends to be. I used to shy away from giving advice, but a close friend says I’m a good listener and that I can imagine myself in someone else’s situation quite easily. Ironically, now that I'm single again, my married friends ask me for advice all the time."

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Din

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Din is a 24-year old New Yorker, currently living in Queens . He is a brother, a teddy bear, and your harshest critic, making him a personality that’s hard to completely hate. Through a wealth of experiences in life, he has developed some unique and empowering perspectives on human behaviour and the survival instincts of the human spirit. Coupled with his great sense of humour, these perspectives help him to intrigue and befriend those he counsels and/or advises. He will be entering theological studies in pursuit of his Masters of Divinity and expects that this schooling – while adding to his Ivy League pedigree – will, more importantly, improve his ability to encourage people in truth and love.

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JD

 

Although JD has dated many women from all different backgrounds, he has yet to be landed. But he’d like to be. Like the Roadrunner, JD would be considered a very hard catch. And the best way to learn how to get a man is from a man who is hard to get. Why? “Well, the man you want to land is both your opponent and prize. So let’s say you wanted to learn how to beat Tiger Woods at golf. The best person to learn from would be-- Tiger Woods.”

Tiger Woods Roadrunner, I mean JD, grew up surrounded by women (his mom, three sisters and their friends). He has unique insight into the small changes women can make to land a man and keep him. From an early age he has been a lightning rod to women who need empowering advice. (“It’s called ‘Landing a man’ because men are passengers and all women have the power to be the pilots”). He has helped countless women better their lives and relationships. JD is an award winning screenwriter & director. He has appeared on HBO, Showtime, E!, CNN, Entertainment Tonight, MTV and Comedy Central and has given many seminars, radio and print interviews. He just completed his first book, “How To Make Him Your Man-Bitch” which will be available soon.

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Nigel

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Nigel has lived and worked all over the world, in the UK, Australia, Dubai and now in India. A world-weary traveller at 29, doing the back-packing, soul-searching, casual-mating that is required of one in his youth and has only just begun to grow roots. Cultured and severely opinionated. He is an avid sportsman - Footie, Rugby and horse-back riding. He runs a small Riding school in India that works with children with learning disabilities. He also works as a senior manager an Executive Director of the Indian Water Works Association. I am known as the guy to talk to when having trouble with the opposite sex. His years in Boarding school with loads of boys, from different cultures, traditions and social strata, give him an understanding of the male psyche that very few can match

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